I once read a fascinating book about a cult leader who moved his flock out to a remote camp way out in the woods.
Cult leaders often control their followers by controlling their environments.
Control over a person’s body is the first step to controlling their heart and mind.
This cult leader was a dirty old man, too.
He set his sights on the prettier wives of the group.
First, he banned them from having sex with their husbands. It was for the righteous and holy purpose of purifying themselves from earthly temptations.
While that was going on, he slowly “recruited” his favorites into his inner circle… which involved a whole lot of early temptation.
This dude held so much influence that he convinced married couples to stop being intimate and to send the wives into his bed.
Where he had a lot of sex with them.
He had like four or five couples doing this, too. All of them bought in to the story that this man was going to save them. By boning their wives.
There’s already a lesson in that for anyone dealing with a cheater… and for all of those men wishing for an unfaithful partner.
It is way easier for a man to exert influence over a woman than you might think. A charming character who knows how to push the right “emotional buttons” can strip the clothes off a woman in the snap of a finger.
Not any woman. Some women won’t have it. But if she’s hiding any dark secrets, repressed guilt, secret shame… and he can dig that out of her… he’s probably getting her pants off.
I’m just being real.
If you’re one of those kinky guys with the wife-sharing kick, I already know what you’re thinking. Where do I find this guy? LOL
Serious though, there’s a pattern of moves that almost program a woman to feel strong sexual attraction, even if she is married or engaged or even in a long-term bf/gf relationship.
And that pattern has nothing do with with physical appearance or even “alpha male” confidence.
All successful con-men and cult leaders have this skill. Most of them do get lots of female attention — and sex — when they use it. But, to the confusion of all the hard-up guys out there, these charmers aren’t even chasing tail. The energy they get from women is a total side-effect.
I’ll tell you about it one of these days, when I reveal the “con man’s secret to cheating” to my special insiders. Make sure you’re subscribed if you want to hear about that:
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I’ll leave you with this.
You may find it exciting thinking of your wife going off to another guy’s tent to be ravaged by a false messiah.
But all of these people lived with serious emotional consequences, including the end of their marriage.
The dream-world isn’t always like the reality. And that goes double for all your fantasies of infidelity.
Be good to each other 😉
xoxo
~ Bella Blaze
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