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When is she most likely to cheat?
You may not like the answer if you’re a guy.
The reason why she cheats is pretty obvious, actually.
I’m assuming she actually loves you and cares about your relationship.
I’m not talking about those ratchet hoes that like to string guys along for fun or because they’re lazy flakes. You should be avoiding those girls anyway.
(Yeah, yeah, I know… she rides it like a machine. Still not worth it.)
I’m talking about when you have a quality woman, who really loves you, and has emotional and romantic investment in your relationship.
Yeah, those ladies cheat, too.
Usually for different reasons.
And even worse…
It’s usually not the reasons that a guy might WANT her to step out on him.
Say you’re a mature relationship and decide you’d like to share her.
Mature as in, you’ve been together for awhile. Not that you’re older in years.
Although, I know of couples that get together in middle age on their second marriage and jump right into swinging or porn, so….
Who am I to judge your extremely arousing sexual sweet-tooth?
What I’m getting at here is that the male desire for a “hotwife” exists in a different universe from the forces that drive a happy woman into unfaithful affairs.
Number one on HER list?
Women who feel like they aren’t being heard, loved, or cared about are far more likely to stray than women who feel like their partners are supportive of them, their lives, hopes, dreams, and well-being.
Yeah. You don’t want that.
You might find it gets your pants pulsing… but it might well mean the end of your marriage in every other way.
It can also happen from plain boredom. Even copulation, the delectable delicacy that it is, can turn into tasteless grey mush as far as your sexual sex-buds are concerned.
This is where you might have more luck arranging for that tryst. She might even ask YOU for it, if the carnal dance has turned into a chore between your fine silk sheets.
Like I always tell you… it’s important to separate the emotional involvements from the mating dance.
Cheating is a very different beast from the consensual fooling-around that men, women, and couples might want to explore with each other.
Take that lesson to the bank, and be good to each other 😉
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~ Bella Blaze
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