Discover more from Ablaze With Bella
The green-eyed monster appears (even for your fantasy)
A little birdie told me a scandalous story the other day.
A couple had opened up their marriage for the wife to have play-time with others at her discretion.
The husband, being a modern liberal kind of guy, was happy to let her play.
Stress on was.
She recently received a new proposition which he was NOT so happy about.
Here’s what happened.
The wife went out with friends a few months back and hit it off with another woman who, come to find out, was in the lifestyle.
Meeting lifestyle friends is great fun. Even more exciting when it happens out in the wild!
This wife and her new friend hit it off, exchanged numbers, and kinda forgot about each other. You know how it is.
A couple of months later the wife gets a text out of the blue and they meet up for coffee.
And that’s where the other woman dropped this bomb on her.
Now, wife and husband have a pretty open “hotwife” deal.
He’s cool with her dating other guys and all that.
Her friend, though, was interested in her.
Yeah, like that.
And that’s all cool too. Many couples who experiment don’t mind experimenting, you know?
What got her husband all bothered was how she wanted to do it.
See, the new lifestyle friend was also married (duh!) and her man was more like a swinger than into HW stuff. He just likes to play. Sharing his wife, sharing other wives, it’s all on the table. Good for him!
The new friend does the nice thing and invites the wife into an FFM threesome.
Which, let’s admit, is pretty hot.
The wife was fascinated by the idea. She wanted to give it a try.
And the husband always said he wanted them to try a three-way with another girl.
He expected to put the M in FFM 😆
Now Mr. Understanding is having second thoughts about the whole thing. All of it.
The thing is, he’s been cool about the whole thing since the beginning. In fact, like many of these relationships, it was mostly his idea.
Now that his wife is branching out and exploring in ways he doesn’t like, he’s not so keen on it.
Which, okay, I can sympathize with that. You go in with your partner expecting certain boundaries. Maybe they didn’t talk about leasing her to another MF couple for a night of debauchery.
But then… when you open Pandora’s Box, what do you expect if not a little chaos?
My considered and wise opinion is that if you decide to go down this road of non-monogamy, you ought to expect that the situation is going to change.
You can’t know what you’ll want, love, hate, or desire once you’re on the other side of the looking glass. It’s wild over there in Wonder Land.
It’s one thing to regret the trip. Some couples can’t handle it, and that’s fine. They can move ahead knowing that.
Other couples go all the way in and you can’t hardly recognize them from over here in Vanilla Town.
The thing is… if you’re going to make the trip, you had better understand what you’re committing yourself, your partner, and your relationship.
Getting jealous and having second thoughts may be understandable… but you brought it all on yourself.
Maybe you didn’t want your wife excited about an FFM three-way with another couple, while you are not on the guest list.
But if you are the one that opened the door to that, you have to take responsibility for it. Jealousy and regret are two of the least productive ways to do that.
What I would say to this husband is:
Either find a way to enjoy this and participate, as much as you can…
Or realize that you’ve messed up bad and maybe monogamy really was right for you.
So says Miss Blaze.
If you're a mature enough adult to be responsible for your kinky decisions, click here and begin your journey into Bella’s twisted (but sensual) universe:
Be good to each other 😉
~ Bella Blaze
PS - If you’re already subscriber, could you do me a favor? Hit “like” and then share it with a friend who might be interested… your favorite social media… or an enemy who would hate it! 😉
If you haven't subscribed yet, you can upgrade your sensual mindwaves here 👉
Thanks doll! 😙