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Our coffee date lead to cheating (and more)
I was out for coffee with an old friend one morning when we saw a gorgeous waiter.
My friend, she was always on the adventurous side of life. She’s the one (well, one of them) who turned my mind and appetites in this direction, many years ago.
When she saw this man, she told me she was going to bring him home with her.
I didn’t believe it. But I did know that she and her husband had that kind of arrangement. Her husband was a lovely man, fun, warm, pleasant to be around. And he liked his wife, my friend, to fool around.
He didn’t have to ask her to oblige him, lol
They’re good people, they really are. Not that society would think so if word of their sexual sweet-tooth ever got out around the neighborhood.
I think of that story when I hear of men and women who “accidentally” cheat.
Like having sex with someone “just happens” the way lightning strikes. That penis just came out of the blue like a bolt!
LOL so awful. But for real, you hear people say this. Like it doesn’t take real effort to copulate? Like you can do it without doing it on purpose…
My friend was DTF and she still had to flirt… make arrangements… go through all the social rituals of dating and mating…
It’s not easy to get strange dick on the side!
That’s why I don’t believe people when they say they cheated on accident.
It wasn’t an accident. They regret getting caught out is what it is.
The vast majority of cheaters do it with intent.
They have sex because they want to and choose to.
This is why it is so helpful to compare notes with non-monogamous and “open marriage” couples.
They know how hard it can be to get somebody into bed. They don’t have to lie about it.
Even when you want to cheat, and your partner wants you to cheat, you’ve got to climb that hill.
What I’m getting at here, lovely, is that you shouldn’t trust a cheater, and that goes double for a cheater who won’t take responsibility for the affair.
If you are a couple who explores the delights of consensual sexual infidelity, you should realize that your style of (super hot) “cheating” will probably take more work than you think.
Getting a penis into a vagina is way harder than it looks 😜
(Thanks to all the emotional and social baggage… that big boy can slip right in there without THAT stuff!)
As for my friend?
She did end up getting that waiter’s number… and, later, she got a little more than that from him 😇
She and her husband have one of the best relationships I know. Go fancy that one!
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~ Bella Blaze
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