In real life it isn't like the p**n

A question about post 🥜 clarity...

This question came across my desk of sin earlier today:

So me and my wife finally did the thing. During it was great. Even after there wasn’t any real weird feelings about it. The only issue that I seem to be running into is like after it’s been a day or so. I get this feeling of regret, shame and jealousy I guess. And that lasts all the way up until she’s about to go out again. She’s going to meet tonight and I’m sitting here feeling… off? Jealous. But I know just like last time once she’s out actually doing it, I’ll be insanely about it. She’s supportive over this and is trying to help me get over it, and she’s up for completely stopping if things go that way. I’m just trying to understand what the hell is going on with me. Why in the moment it’s all good and I love this. But all the way up to it. I’m off. I don’t understand. Was wondering if anyone else is going through this and if anyone’s got advice. Thanks.

Our man here is surprised that he feels badly when his wife is getting plowed.

You know the twisted up thing?

This response would be entirely ordinary and expected in almost any married man with the knowledge that his wife is getting railed by another guy.

He has a problem thanks to his curious appetite for wifely hoe-things.

Fortunately the answer is not hard to spot.

He already knows it!

He wrote it out in his own words:

I know just like last time once she’s out actually doing it, I’ll be insanely about it.

Think of it like eating ice cream on a hot day. The first bites are 😚

Try to shove a whole carton down your face and its 🤮

You’ve got to get the right balance between thirsty and drowning.

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Pussy is like ice cream on a hot day.

😺 =🍦

If you aren’t getting any, you aren’t thinking about much else.

If you just got some, it’s the last thing on your mind.

As far as male sex drive is concerned…

It’s the same thing when “getting pussy” means “sharing your wife’s pussy”.

A lot of guys walk into this totally unprepared for the reality. They get all the horny and none of the “uh oh”.

Real life is not like the porn you watched!

You aren’t going to nut and then the camera man says “cut” and that’s the end of the scene.

Dicks will be wet, pussies will be messy, and oh, another guy’s penis was inside your wife’s vagina and he’s probably still there hanging around. You’ll have to work with that after he’s experienced your wife in the most intimate and personal way.

The upside is, that’s why it’s hot.

The downside is, that’s why it sucks.

All that reality gets emotional when you can’t cover it up with horny.

Which is our man’s trouble.

When he’s got a raging boner, there is no such thing as jealousy, shame, anger, envy, or doubt.

After?

All the negative feelings and bad thoughts come racing in.

Negative feelings aren’t the end of the world.

Some people will let this blow things up. Others are more constructive.

Here’s the advice I’d tell this lost soul about his troubles.

Aftercare. Do it.

1. Negative feelings aren’t reality. Feelings come and go. What you attach to your feelings is the impact they have. Learning how to process your negative reactions is super important for any emotionally risky activity… like when your wife is fucking another guy.

2. Negative feelings can point at important issues inside. Feelings don’t need to be true to pick up on unresolved issues causing pain and suffering. It’s worth asking yourself why you feel how you feel. There’s the obvious answer, but go deeper. Do this with sincerity and dig deep. You’ll probably find monsters, and that’s exactly what you need.

3. Talk to your wife. If she’s worth anything as a partner, she’ll listen and support you. You’ll do a lot of talking about how things made you feel. Spend time together after and before any future hook-ups. While you’re doing the work in step (2), talk about what you find and how it makes you feel. The clearer you get and the better you get at talking about what you find, the better things will go.

The main thing to know is that jealousy, regret, and shame are close friends with fear. You did a naughty, dirty thing and your natural man-instincts are responding to it.

That’s good! That’s healthy. It’s a sign that you care about your wife. You’re a caring husband and it sounds like, in this case, she’s a good loving wife. 🤗

Your job now is to take a constructive attitude about your negative thoughts and emotions.

One sure-fire way to get a major advantage in that area is to be a member here at Club Blaze.

Til next time!

xoxo
~Bella Blaze 😘

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