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How to cheat with a conscience
It's not the dirty technicalities of mating that cause all the heartache
You’ve seen her all over the personals sites.
“F35, would you do me while my husband is at work?”
She’s on the prowl because hubby isn’t hitting it right.
Dating is complicated today, isn’t it?
Lots of young studs with the energy of a stallion would love the chance to roll around naked in the bed with an attractive woman in her 30s.
All else equal, they should have messy hormone-driven fun together.
But she’s married.
She might be in that kind of open relationship where hubby consents… or even wants her to fool around…
But she might not.
And if she’s fooling around behind his back, that’s no place you want to be.
There’s only two things in this world that will get you killed.
Mess with a man’s money, and mess with his woman.
Some men out there thinking with their small head will tell you that it’s all on her. She’s responsible, she wants the D, so why not give it to her.
That’s fine. Best not complain if you end up at the wrong end of a .45, though.
Look. Women get bored with men.
That’s a fact about biology. Almost any woman, if you went deep inside her, past the cultural programming, would admit she wants more sex with different men.
Some of these women get prodded by their husbands. Some of them take the initiative and sneak around.
Here’s the thing. A lot of men have this fantasy where it’s okay if she plays as long as she’s coming home to him.
He’d prefer she go out and have her fun as long as they can have their relationship together.
For two, he’s probably mad turned on by her adventures anyway. It might be the most sexual energy he’s gotten from her in years.
What’s the difference between this and hot-mama 35F looking for a new guy behind husband’s back?
Women who take it on themselves to hook up with other guys while in a relationship or married are misbehaving.
She’s deceiving at least one man in her life. Maybe more, if she lies to her side-pieces.
If you get down to it, the sex isn’t what bothers a man who gets cheated on.
He’s bothered by the lies, the deception, the sneaking around.
Giving it up with his consent can be exciting and arousing.
Doing the exact same thing, with the exact same guy, while lying about it, can be a heart-breaking betrayal.
If you’re going to cheat, do it with conscience.
Bring your man (or woman) into your adventures. Give him the chance to say no. If it’s that important to you, give him the chance to go his own way.
Straight up, a lot of men won’t go for it. Even guys with the fantasy may need a lot of processing before taking that step.
Whatever you do…
Cheat with conscience.
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Be good to each other ;-)
~ Bella Blaze
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