Guys hate it when she tells them
There was a post on reddit the other day where a girl confessed to this weird thing she does on dating apps.
It was pretty cute.
Not many girls are into this, that I know of.
(Or are they?)
The twist is, you’d expect this behavior from guys. It’s way more of a guy thing.
Funny enough, even though you might expect guys, reputed as the hot-blooded horn-dogs, to jump on her… opportunity… most of them hesitated.
That makes her little quirk double extra interesting for your truly.
I love the oddities of sexual desire between men and women.
I like seeing where the usual patterns break down.
It excites me.
On a purely intellectual level, you understand.
Stop being rude!
Anyway, this weird thing of hers?
When she starts a relationship with a guy…
She tells him to sleep with other girls.
She wants the whole infidelity package, too. She gets mad turned on when her men get frisky with other ladies. Everything from flirting to x-rated pics slid up in her DMs.
We know that a lot of men, maybe a majority, have entertained this thought about their ladies. And they get similar results. Even though, objectively speaking, the open relationship is a great bargain for women, most ladies find it hard to process.
Looks like a lot of guys aren’t too down with it either. Has the wandering eye of the male sex finally been tame?
Not what I would have expected!
You would figure that a guy would jump at the opportunity to have a girlfriend AND a free pass for even more sex with other girls.
So many couples suffer from unwanted infidelity while you’ve got guys AND girls out here almost begging for it — and getting shot down!
They’ll cheat if temptation wins… but if their partner ASKS them to do it, they clam up.
If you’re into that kind of wild stuff, get more right up in your inbox.
Be good to each other ;-)
~ Bella Blaze
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In my opinion I think it goes both ways and if both parties are okay with this type of relationship who are we as humans to tell them otherwise.
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