Your wife probably isn't put off by sex outside your marriage (but there's a catch...)
Married women are sexually faithful for one powerful (but little known) reason that has nothing to do with her commitment to monogamy
If you’ve ever brought up your hotwife fantasy to your wife, chances are you’ve hit the wall of hesitation.
No matter how it comes up, no matter how you put it, no matter what you say to encourage or soothe her, her immediate reaction is…
“No way!”
That natural negativity creates no end of confusions and frustrations for the men who fantasize about their lovely wives being very dirty girls.
A lot of guys assume that it’s because she’s married.
She’s hesitating because she’s so committed to you…
To your relationship…
To your marriage…
To her holy vows to your eternal love…
If only it were so easy!
Can you think of a time when you wanted something, even wanted it quite badly, but you knew that if you got it it would make your life worse?
Maybe a lot worse?
If you can, that’s a powerful hint as to what she thinks about your fantasy.
Your marriage, and the personal bond it represents between you, are one reason that she feels nervous about straying. But men have the wrong idea about this, like they do with most things about the gentler sex.
If your wife is super-religious or extremely conservative, she may well feel that commitment to sexual chastity and purity. (However… do not underestimate the filthiness that can lurk under the pretty surface of the Good Girl…)
Most women around today, though, are not that bothered by sex for sex’s sake.
If it were just about sweaty naked fun with a guy she feels attracted to, your dear sweet wife would be butt-naked in a hot second.
For women who are not aggressive sport-f**king champions, sex needs attraction mixed in with a special ingredient.
Your relationship provides her with that ingredient.
That’s why she’ll get naked and sweaty with her husband or boyfriend.
If that ingredient is missing, she will hesitate about even the most casual, risk-free, no-strings hook-ups, no matter how much permission and reassurance you give her.
This magic is also, oddly, the same reason why she’ll hop in the sack with a near-total stranger for a one night fling.
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The men who believe in True Love do not want to hear this but…
It isn’t the thought of sex with someone else that turns her off.
She might be totally down for a romp with another fella.
That guy at the gym… the cute guy who made her coffee… the OMG hottie who was in line at the checkout… 🤩
She’s getting wet and imagining how it would be if he had his way with her. Bet on it.
Fear of another boy putting his thing inside her is not what stops her from extramarital fun.
(Did I just break your heart? 💔 Sorry, fella, but girls are by far the dirtier of the two sexes…)
Her resistance has nothing to do with arousal, excitement, or pleasure. She has that covered.
It isn’t to do with her faithfulness to you or your marriage. Do not underestimate the power of a wet pussy to allow a charming man to have his way.
There’s one word that explains her hesitation at your proposals.
Safety.
Make her feel safe and you can feel the 😽
