Tip to shy husbands: Don't lie to your wife about what you want!
Lying never gets you anywhere.
Stop me if you’ve heard this before:
I want this for my wife’s pleasure. Her needs and wants always come before mine. I want her to know the excitement, pleasure, and satisfaction of a real man who is larger and better in bed than me.
Maybe you’ve even said it yourself.
You know what?
You’re a damn dirty liar.
Yes, you.
Your wife (girlfriend, partner, whoever she is to you) probably does figure into your filthy fantasy plans for her.
She’s the performer in the scene with the purpose of getting you off.
How exciting! 🙄
I know a lot of boys are not clued in on how women talk, think, and what we want in bed.
A lot of boys don’t even know there’s a difference between their own feelings and sexual desires, and what the women in their lives need and want.
That’s why we have to hear so much made-up nonsense about female pleasure…
…from men who have never known female pleasure and never caused any.
Harsh, but you need to hear it.
Listen up, boy.
You don’t know what makes a pussy wet and throbbing. You don’t know what a woman wants for herself. You don’t know what she craves and what makes her ache.
Making up stories about how you “love to submit to her pleasure” is NOT fooling anyone.
Women see right through you. We aren’t stupid. And when it comes to begging for sex, men’s motivations are clear as clean glass.
It’s like visiting a foreign country where you don’t speak the local language and speaking to everyone in English.
They don’t have any idea what you’re saying.
But you treat everyone like they understand you perfectly.
You aren’t communicating. You’re making up a fantasy in your mind.
There’s no connection to reality.
It’s exactly like that when these hopeless husbands try to convince their wives to do their hotwife or cuckold fantasy.
You can pretend all you want that it’s about her orgasms, her pleasure, her enjoyment of a 9” BBC monster (which, by the way, is NOT as enjoyable as you believe…)
…but the stone-cold truth is that you want what YOU want, you as a male with a penis and male sexual needs.
And this fantasy is all about YOU.
Look, women like sex, too. But we aren’t like you. We don’t get aroused like you, or turned on by the same things that arouse you.
We might find your cuckold kink hot! There’s a lot going for it from the lady’s point of view!
But there’s a lot of risks, emotions, feelings, and girl-stuff that your male-brain is not factoring in.
If you don’t understand the difference between boys and girls, you’re embarrassing yourself.
And if you aren’t getting anywhere talking to your wife about your dirty desires?
Confusing YOUR wish for HERS might be what’s stopping you.
What can you do about that?
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I’d love to tell you that it isn’t your fault but, to be totally frank…
It is your fault.
Like almost everyone alive, you walk around in your own world, concerned about your own needs and desires.
There’s nothing wrong with that! It’s human.
Where you mess up is with the lying.
And then believing that you’re fooling anyone with your lies.
