Here's a tip for you who are not ready to share yet
Men are always in a rush, but there's a better way to explore hotwife fantasies.
The question I get most often in my inbox looks like this:
I want to share my wife sooo badly! I can’t stop thinking about her getting with other guys. What can I do to make her do this?
The poor woman doesn’t even get a choice in it, but he wants her to do it for her pleasure.
Sure. 🙄
I always tell men — and suitably horny women — to slow down.
These hornballs can’t think straight.
Cloudy thinking makes them push so hard for their wife or gf to jump in the sack with another guy. There’s no thought of consequences… or what she thinks, or might want from the whole game.
But do they really want that to happen?
Do they really need it in order to enjoy themselves?
Can their relationship really play that out?
The couples that do best with wifely extracurriculars tend to involve certain personalities and certain relationship types. You get rock-hard reading c**k stories? Doesn’t mean it’s for you in real life.
A horny husband of a would-be hotwife (HHH let’s call him) believes that he needs an elaborate, impossible, planned-out perfect pornified fantasy scenario.
10” BBC? ✔
Weak husband shoved in a chair and forced to watch the masculine bull pleasure his love? ✔
Shy and inexperienced wife turns into an insatiable nympho at the first sight of a penis? ✔
HHH believes he needs all that junk from low-effort c**ck porn.
Here’s the reality:
You don’t even want all that junk.
If it happened in real life it would very likely end your marriage.
And the worst thing?
You wouldn’t even enjoy it.
The reality of sex is so far from the porn-brain fantasy that you can’t begin to see the difference.
You don’t need unbelievable adult-video choreography.
What you need is much more tame.
Vanilla, even.
Do it right and you’ll get your erotic intimacy, your heart-racing adrenaline dump, and quite likely the best sex you and your wife have ever had.
All it takes is one small moment.
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Big Porn is not realistic. Yeah, yeah, I know. You know that, right? 🙄
The Big Porn scenarios are not even exciting. You know they’re fake, but it goes deeper than fake. They don’t even create an arousing illusion. Most of them are unimaginative, forgettable, and not at all hot. It’s just people going through the motions.
Take a different example from this story sent to me awhile back:
First time being hit on in front of my husband. Gym guy asked if I was seeing anyone 😅
Was finishing up a workout when this tall guy came over and asked how many sets I had left. We chatted for a bit between machines and he started complimenting my form, then my legs, and eventually asked if I was single. I just laughed and said “Not exactly.”
Never been hit on like that since before being married, especially not right in front of my husband so it was kind of a rush. He was across the gym watching the whole thing. When I walked back over, he raised an eyebrow and just said, “So… making new friends?”
We ended up talking about it in the car on the way home. He said it was hot seeing someone actually approach me like that, and asked if I liked the attention.
What do you notice about this story?
She didn’t drop her panties and take his monster right there on the gym floor.
She didn’t flirt with the guy. She didn’t exchange numbers.
She did exactly what a loving, loyal, committed wife would do in that situation.
And yet… these three paragraphs are 🔥
How can that be? There’s nothing happening!
Take a look at the ingredients:
Your most intimate partner, in a familiar place, doing something entirely ordinary.
The gym is already an erotic space bursting with sexual charge from men and women getting physical in the same space.
And then there’s that moment when it explodes into reality.
A guy flirting and asking her out is a mild dish, sure.
But it’s real. It’s here. It’s happening right in front of you.
A small moment that contains all the pent-up sexual dynamite of the hotwife fantasy.
And that fantasy transformed from goofball p0rn to real life.
We have to imagine that woman and her husband having a very satisfying evening after that “tame” encounter.
It does not take much fuel to fan the fires of hotwife desires.
A few words from the right person, in the right place and the right time, can be all you need for unbeatable bedroom excitement.
Whether you’re gentleman or lady, do not underestimate the smallest moves.
Vanilla small moves = 🔥
You don’t need the crazy fantasies.
You need little moments of sexual tension.
The little moves and tiny steps tease the mind and furnish the imagination with dirty thoughts.
That’s what you really want, you know.
It isn’t the carnal act itself that you get off on.
It’s the movie playing in your mind tempting and teasing and ultimately pleasing.
And if you can get that movie to play without bringing in other people?
Without risking your marriage?
Well… that’s worth a lot, isn’t it?
Maybe worth enough for you to subscribe here at Club Blaze for more tips on elevating your marital spice…
Til next time!
xoxo
~Bella Blaze 😘
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